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Family time lost to phones: IELTS essay ideas

Plan this problem and solution essay about family with the ideas and outline below, write it on a 40-minute timer, then compare it with a band-8 model answer.

WRITING TASK 2

You should spend about 40 minutes on this task.

Write about the following topic:

Parents and children today often spend time together but each is using a phone or tablet, so real conversation is rare.

What are the causes of this problem and what measures could be taken to solve it?

Give reasons for your answer and include any relevant examples from your own knowledge or experience.

Write at least 250 words.

GoPrep wrote this practice question in the style of the exam. It is not an official IELTS question.

Ideas for both sides

Pick two or three points from one or both columns. You do not need all of them, and your own examples score better than memorised ones.

Problems

  • devices designed to hold attention
  • parents use them for work and relaxation
  • children copy adult behaviour

Solutions

  • device-free times at home
  • shared activities such as games and walks
  • parents modelling healthy screen use

Essay outline

  1. 1IntroductionIntroduce screen use at home
  2. 2Body paragraph 1Causes - addictive design, work, imitation
  3. 3Body paragraph 2Solutions - device-free time, shared activities
  4. 4ConclusionParents must lead by example

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Band-8 model answer

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Parents and children today often spend time in the same room, yet each is using a phone or tablet, so real conversation is rare. This essay will explain the causes and suggest ways to address the problem.

Several causes can be identified. Devices are designed to capture attention, with endless videos, games and notifications, so it takes real effort to put them down. Many parents also need their phones for work, and they answer emails and messages at home, which gives children the impression that screens come first. Children copy what they see, so when adults are constantly looking at their phones, the habit seems natural. In addition, busy parents sometimes give a tablet to a child as an easy way to keep them quiet while they finish tasks, and over time both sides become used to silence. Finally, online entertainment is often more immediately rewarding than ordinary conversation, which can feel slow or awkward by comparison.

There are practical measures that families can take. They can establish device-free times, such as meals and the hour before bed, and keep phones in a basket during these periods. Parents should lead by example, because rules that adults do not follow themselves are rarely respected. Planning shared activities that do not involve screens, such as cooking, sports, board games or walks, creates natural opportunities for talking. Parents may also use technology together with children, for instance by playing a video game or watching a film and then discussing it. Schools can support families by teaching children about balanced use of technology.

In conclusion, attractive devices, work demands, parental example and convenience explain why family conversation is declining. Device-free routines, positive role models and shared activities would help families reconnect.

Useful vocabulary

PhraseMeaning
screen timehours spent on screens
glued to the screenconstantly looking at a device
meaningful conversationtalk that matters
digital detoxperiod without using devices
set a good examplebehave in a way others copy
family bondingbuilding closeness within a family

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