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Friendships via social media: IELTS essay ideas

Plan this positive or negative essay about technology with the ideas and outline below, write it on a 40-minute timer, then compare it with a band-8 model answer.

WRITING TASK 2

You should spend about 40 minutes on this task.

Write about the following topic:

Many people now maintain friendships mainly through social media rather than meeting in person.

Is this a positive or negative development?

Give reasons for your answer and include any relevant examples from your own knowledge or experience.

Write at least 250 words.

GoPrep wrote this practice question in the style of the exam. It is not an official IELTS question.

Ideas for both sides

Pick two or three points from one or both columns. You do not need all of them, and your own examples score better than memorised ones.

Positive

  • Keeps friends in touch across countries
  • Helps shy people connect
  • Cheap and instant communication

Negative

  • Relationships may become shallow
  • Less time for real meetings
  • Comparison and online conflict cause stress

Essay outline

  1. 1IntroductionIntroduce the trend and state that you see it as mainly negative (or positive)
  2. 2Body paragraph 1The benefits of staying connected
  3. 3Body paragraph 2The drawbacks for relationship quality and wellbeing
  4. 4ConclusionConclude with your overall view

Write it on the clock

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40:00

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Band-8 model answer

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Show model answer (277 words)

Many people now keep in touch with friends mainly through social media rather than by meeting them. Although this brings some benefits, I believe it is a mostly negative development.

On the positive side, social platforms make it easy to maintain relationships across long distances. Someone who has moved abroad for work can still see photos of old classmates, send quick messages and join video calls at no cost. Shy people may also find it easier to start conversations online, and communities built around shared interests can offer support that is difficult to find locally. In these ways, technology can prevent friendships from fading simply because of geography.

However, the drawbacks are more serious. Online contact tends to be shallow: a like or a short comment is not the same as listening to a friend who is upset, and important cues such as tone of voice and body language are lost. People can end up with hundreds of contacts but few close companions. Social media also encourages comparison, because users usually share only their best moments, and studies have linked heavy use to anxiety and loneliness, especially among teenagers. Meeting in person, by contrast, builds trust through shared experiences, whether a long meal, a football match or simply helping a friend to move house. If online contact replaces these experiences instead of supplementing them, relationships become fragile.

In my view, then, social media is a useful tool for staying in touch but a poor substitute for real company.

In conclusion, the benefits of convenience and connection are outweighed by the loss of depth and the risks to wellbeing, so I consider the trend more negative than positive.

Useful vocabulary

PhraseMeaning
virtual communicationcontact through devices
meaningful relationshipsclose and valuable bonds
superficiallacking depth
stay in touchkeep contact
online interactioncontact via the internet
social isolationlack of social contact

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