Dear Daniel,
I wasn't sure how to bring this up face to face, so I thought I'd write it down. It's about the washing-up.
For the last few weeks, your dishes have been left in the sink or on the counter for days. When I came home yesterday, there were plates with dried food, three mugs and a frying pan that had been there since Sunday. The kitchen smells bad.
To be honest, it's really getting me down. I like cooking, but I now have to clean up before I can even start, and I'm often too tired to do that after work. I don't want us to fall out over something so small, but I'm starting to feel a bit resentful.
I wonder if we could agree on a system that is fair to both of us. For example, we could each wash up our own things straight after eating, or take turns doing all the dishes on alternate days.
What do you think? Let's talk about it this weekend.
Best wishes,
Tom